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• Deidre Sanders
• Agony Aunt

• 18 Aug 2018, 19:55
• Updated: 19 Aug 2018, 6:22

• Deidre Sanders
• Agony Aunt

• Invalid Date,

DEAR DEIDRE: we decided to view my girlfriend sex that is having other males however it has ruined our relationship.

We had been chatting after having sex one evening and she described her fantasy that is sexual.

She stated if we consented to do hers, she’d I would ike to do mine too. She stated she had constantly desired to have intercourse with two other males while her partner watched. I happened to be gobsmacked.

I did son’t would you like to rock the watercraft thus I stupidly said yes. I will be 29, she’s 28 and now we have already been together for 36 months.

We’ve always possessed an excellent sex-life and I also thought it had been satisfying sufficient for all of us both.

We did concur guidelines, however, such as for instance making use of condoms with no kissing or cuddling these males a short while later. I desired become clear it absolutely was solely a thing that is sexual no emotions involved.

She install it and as opposed to have strangers, she brought in 2 friends that are male. While I became viewing, they broke most of the guidelines she had guaranteed. She kissed and fondled them both in addition they declined to make use of condoms.

After 5 minutes i could stand any more n’t and sought out of this room. She was heard by me state she was going to speak with me personally.

We left the flat before the overnight. My girlfriend was furious.

She stated I’d ruined the evening but did acknowledge the guys managed her like a bit of meat.

It creates me feel unwell each and every time i do believe about this and I also have already been resting regarding the couch since.

She’s got now explained she stopped using the Pill during the time, since the possibility of having a baby by certainly one of them caused it to be more exciting. We don’t determine if she was lying or otherwise not.

I can’t speak with my family about this but We have talked to 1 trusted feminine friend.

She stated i will keep my gf and called her a tramp. My gf states that this buddy is wanting to split us up because she would like to be beside me by herself.

She claims if we leave her, I’ll never have anyone nearly as good as her.

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DEIDRE CLAIMS: creating that threesome ended up beingn’t so much cheap behavior as self-destructive.

Your gf must obtain a sexual-health that is urgent maternity check.

We wonder exactly what lies behind this dream of hers.

Did your gf not realise she’d become feeling found in this type or variety of situation?

Ask just what has led her to feel attracted to such high-risk intimate behavior.

There needs to be some foundation you move forward together for it and understanding that might help.

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But down you will never feel the same about her again, splitting up will be best for you both if you know deep.

If that’s the case, remember to get within the split prior to getting associated with someone else, whether that is your friend that is good or. You ought to give your hurt to be able to heal.

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